What is a submissive?
Well, we come in all sizes and
shapes lol. Yes, I’m a sub. My Dom is my husband of 20 years.
A submissive is a person who makes
a conscious choice to give up some or all control of their life to another
person—a Dominant or a Top. Dominance
and submission is about a power exchange between two consenting adults. It is
about the control within the dynamics of that relationship, whether it be a
full time 24/7 relationship, or a casual meeting, or a part time arrangement.
Choosing to be submissive means to
allow someone else to control your body and behavior within the preset limits
you and that particular person, i.e. the Dominant, have agreed upon. Submission
is not a sign of weakness;
some of the most successful
and strongest people are true submissives.
Submission is not about
passiveness, it is not about being a doormat—most
submissives are intelligent and well-balanced people just fulfilling their
basic desires to submit and to give up control.
Submission is not about kinky
sex and whips and chains—though those
things can and do play a part in our lifestyle—it's much deeper than just
that, and comes from the heart. Submission is a choice, and a wonderful gift to
the Dominant—it should never be
entered into lightly, even in a casual situation at a party or gathering.
CONTEST!
For the BDSM bloghop, I’m giving
away an eBook copy of Wrapped in Leather. This is the first in the Wrapped UP series at DsP.
Just leave a comment with an email
addy. J
~M
Blurb:
To celebrate his decision to take the next step with his boyfriend Ian,
Toshi Baylor plans a romantic evening at their favorite steak house. Toshi
starts the special weekend with a bang by surprising Ian at home with lunch.
There’s a bang all right, but it’s between Ian and another guy.
Jase Taylor’s auto repair shop and the BDSM club, Wrapped Up, keep him busy
while he waits for Mr. Right, instead of Mr. Right Now. He’s a Dom, but playing
with the club’s submissives isn’t providing the usual stress release. After a
day from hell, he deserves a good meal at his favorite steak house.
Toshi and Jase find a mix-up with their reservations: a table for Baylor, not
Taylor. When Toshi invites Jase to dine with him, they discover a mutual
affection for leather and a shared belief that trust must be earned.
Before they can explore their common interests, Toshi suffers a series of
attacks by vandals. Jase’s protective instincts kick in, but both wonder if it
can lead to anything permanent.
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